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Tom Ham's Lighthouse
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All-in cost submissions
110
Range: 110 to 110
230
230 seated · 280 cocktail
$109
Across submissions
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$12k
$12k
Single submission
Reported
All-In Reported Cost · 1 receipt
What couples actually paid or were quoted.
A wedding at Tom Ham's Lighthouse typically runs about $12,000 all-in, based on real quotes and receipts. That’s the site fee, ceremony surcharge, and any required add-ons rolled together. Here’s what the numbers look like.
Median All-In
$12,000
Reported Costs · By Wedding Date
Day of Week:
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median $12,000
$12k
Jun '27
Sat · peak
25th Pctl
$12,000
Median
$12,000
75th Pctl
$12,000
Mean
$12,000
Recent Submissions
| Month | Day | Guests | Total | Type | Notes |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Jun 2027 | Sat | 110 | $12,000 | Quote | Peak Saturday · Venue + F&B |
Jun 2027 · Sat$12,000
110 guests · Quote
Peak Saturday · Venue + F&B
Pricing Model Key
Venue + F&BSite fee plus food and/or beverage provided by the venue.
Coming with more data
As submission counts grow, we’ll break this down into line-item ranges (site fee vs. ceremony surcharge vs. required add-ons) plus seasonal and day-of-week adjustments.
What’s included
Site fee, ceremony surcharge, required staffing, security, insurance riders, and overtime as billed.
What’s not
Catering, florals, rentals, photography, music, attire: those have their own ledgers.
Fine Print
Restrictions & Rules
House Rules
Specific policies vary by date and package. Confirm directly with the venue.
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